anon_003 wrote:I read you loud and clear brotha! I apologize if that sounded like an attack on my behalf. All I was trying to do was expound upon the point you made and hopefully provoke further discussion.
Not at all man, totally good

*Edit to add: I suppose the view I present after this edit is quite incomplete - because you're right, there definitely are some people who are as you say, and have a desire to hurt/kill...I shouldn't imply that they aren't part of the picture too. But I don't feel like editing the rest of this, and I still stand by most of it - so I'm leaving it.

I might have gotten a little carried away - didn't mean to turn this in to a debate or anything.
anon_003 wrote:No, what we are dealing with are psychopaths. Crazy, ravaging psychopaths who don't fit sometimes in because they are crazy, ravaging psychopaths. I can think of a few people I went to high school with that fit this description. It isn't society that made them this way; they have extreme internal problems that they either need to sort out or are totally beyond their control. These people were not simply dorks or nerds or whatever. These people were the ones who gave you weird looks when you make eye contact with them, the ones that asked all the girls on their facebook friends profile for naked pictures. Just creepy, inappropriate, scary people.
I dunno - that may be so, but who are we to assume who these people were? We know not. In my experience and from my personal perceptions of people, I think it'd be far more likely that these people are the quiet shunned children enduring large amounts of pain and agony. The kids who seemed to be 'crazy, ravaging psychopaths' usually turned out to be scared and unwilling to fulfill the needs for a serious confrontation when actually confronted by someone who seriously meant to meet their behavior with determination to end it. They simply prey on
others who are weak and scared but haven't chosen to develop the facade of being a big bad mean menacing wolf. They are a form of bullies - they don't go shooting up schools because they don't need to kill to feed their hunger - they just need to keep their feet on others' throats to hold them down. Without others to hold down, they can't hold themselves up - so in general, these aren't killers - these are the enslavers, enslaving others by fear of their big bad show.
As Du57mi73 detailed in his/her opening up to us all (my love goes out to you!), someone doesn't have to be a crazy ravaging psychopath intent on destroying other people to break down and have a fit of rage/violence/murder.
There are plenty of children who, most of the time, are generous, courteous, sensitive to their feelings and the feelings of others, highly intuitive etc etc - who then also, at seemingly random times, break out in fits of rage and verbally abuse people they love, or even physically. I don't think these children are violent murderers full-time. They simply can't carry the weight they are loaded with, for whatever reason - am I saying that they're carrying more than anyone else? I don't know - I hesitate to say anything for sure, because this subject and these people's situations are definitely far too complex to have a complete understanding of...but I definitely do think that these children doing these shootings are as I illustrated in my previous post - children in serious pain and agony, who on any other day, you may think was just a very shy and depressed person. But sometimes...the levee breaks.
How many times have you heard someone speak of one of these shooters and say "Oh yeah, he was a terrible child, always bullying others and intent on hurting people." I'm not sure I ever have. It's usually "I can't believe so and so did this, it's so out of character for him, he was such a loving and caring boy, etc etc".
Again, definitely (probably) not the case in every situation, but...I dunno.
Heheh my mother had an encounter with a mama raccoon in her house recently - she had babies elsewhere, and upon confrontation with humans - my mom and dad - erupted into a violent snarling mess - my mom couldn't believe it, and her previous perception of raccoons as being cute interesting little animals was wrecked - but it's important to see that it's not that they are no longer cute and interesting animals, it's that they're that AND a violent snarling mess - in certain situations. We all are. Some of us have never been in such a situation, but I assure you, the potential is in there. And some people are in those situations far more often than most, and they may be able to resist breaking out in violent rage for years...but after living in a broken home and being stepped on year after year even outside of the home - in their second home, school - it seems silly not to expect them to explode at some point. We can all only carry so much - even the nicest of us. And I assure you that going to the principal for protection is one of the farthest things from their minds - it's something they simply will not do because it will not help - this is not as simple as bullying and getting the bully to stop.
The issue here, I believe, is that the inner worlds of people - within our hearts and minds that we live with day in and day out - varies far more than most are aware of because of the parts of their lives we don't see as we carry on with ours. And for some, these inner worlds are utter hell day in and day out - even though they're generally nice loving people. Doesn't mean they won't lose control and break open like the water balloon I referenced in the other post.
It removes no blame and faults no one else, but our perception of the issue determines how we perceive those in the situation, and thus how we attempt to approach and deal with the situation - and seeing them as helpless raging psychopaths who just need to be locked up or put on zombie-fying medication blinds us from seeing some other very real, very serious issues inherent in the way things go down in our society that can cause normal, loving, nice people - but people in a great deal of pain and turmoil - to explode.