Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj wrote:Can there be true knowledge of things? Relatively, yes there is certainly a knowledge of things. Absolutely, there are no things, there is only the One appearing as the many. So, these "things" are all aspects of the same reality. To know that nothing exists apart from That... is true knowledge.
I feel that anything we can express as individuals is bound to be locked within duality. The simple fact is that everything we can write or speak about, literally or verbally, is existent in a realm of polarity. IMO, the mind can never fully know the Divine, nor God know the isolation of individuality. Even thinking about these issues and aspects of existential being keep us in an endless whirl of conceptualization. Taking this to the next level, spiritual unity or indivisibility are mirrored reflections of disunity and concrete division.
I do agree, "coherence" as a unifying principle is the equal & opposite twin of complete incoherence. But I really do like the sound of it. If coherence is another way of saying Gnosis, symmetry or spiritual enlightenment, it's really the same house of mirrors we wander within. But it becomes a light which guides us through this labyrinth of mind stuff inside of our head. We do though, remain sailing within the same ideological boat, in and of itself. A ship built of our own thoughts, composed of opposing and/or harmonizing echoes and reflections. Tis forevermore the mysterious voyage of the psychonaut.
Likewise, when we label all of the diversity in this universal process a whole, as with the "Unified Field of Energy" (which Dr. Einstein struggled to prove through rational science), we still continue to be wrestling within the duality of it all. When all along... there is the distinct possibility that no duality exists apart from our perception of it being so, whether it is... or is not.
It's surely a matter of our subjective perspective, interacting with those of all other life forms cohabiting this reality and arguably, many other realities which we do not even remotely perceive of (yet we still do interact). We humanoid organisms use a great many words to say what cannot ever be said (I sure as hell do!). Humanity is caught within an intellectual checkmate, spiraling beyond our individual grasp, every single time we attempt to raise voice or pen towards that indefinable state (whereby we perceive of that which underlies the dichotomy of something/no-thing).
So perhaps silence itself may be the only appropriate statement we could utter about the Godhead, the non-dual state or the eternal Tao? It has been suggested innumerable times by wiser folks. And the irony is that we have deeply touched by our embrace with Sacred Medicines, and we will never be the same!
From my vantage point, as I am unable to define the undefinable... I gather symbolic words-concept-thought forms, which remain bound by my own relativity of perception. Are we not all subjective lenses by which we transfer our epiphanies from a mystical place which dissolves our isolated perception of being self, and so too, absorbs the witness back into that which has always been infinite being?
Thus, wholly silencing the mind of the inner observer piloting our awareness. Even when I aim my very soul focus towards a plane of being which effectively silences my thoughts and dissolves my separation from all else... there is not a tangible thing which can be brought back into the dimensionality of self and other, to realistically discuss with any success. Yet we feel this irrepressible urge to say something tremendously profound about it, when we do once more return to "normal" consciousness.
So we all seem to agree about many aspects of this cosmic puzzle. We do not seem to be able to put it into proper quantification or create a reasonable, cohesive theory about whatever we intend to express about THAT/THIS level we have become immersed within and transformed so powerfully by. I am reminded of something Dr. Richard Alpert (Baba Ram Das) said in the early 1970s and I do admittedly, paraphrase his wisdom as best as I can recall.
"That essence which exists within all things cannot be known in the usual sense of knowing. it can only be experienced directly. We cannot realistically describe it's eternal nature or pin it down to an earth-shattering hypothesis. But we can BE IT and we can awaken to discover this living presence, this very moment, right here & now. And so, we can either change the channel and choose look another direction... or enjoy the magnificence of simply being it, wholly and blissfully."
As per the OP's opening post, which I honestly feel is a profound insight, our friend's dramatic dilemma about experiencing fear, universal loneliness and the mortal fate of struggling with the immense incomprehensibility of it all... deserves much compassion and understanding. By finding such a spiritual truth behind the material appearances, who isn't shattered, perplexed and totally overwhelmed? We might ask just WHY... and question the purpose for any existence at all, let alone that vacuum of non-existence.
It's all too much!!! But I sincerely believe this to be our personal bias about the mystery of the Divine, this curiosity of ours.
Some things remain unknown and will continue to elude our labels. They remain unknowable, so they must also be unspoken of (if that makes any sense, given my verbosity now). This paradox, coupled with our transient human sentience, leaves us all STILL having to live life as an ordinary human being, albeit a traveler to alternate planes of conscious-awareness. It definitely does create an angst within the singular soul about being temporarily locked within the material dreamscape of the
time-space-continuum. Why did the ineffable and insubstantial essence of being divide itself... if all along the way... only the singularity of Spirit is the one true reality? Furthermore, if it is immeasurably unfathomable, why ask why?
These are highly valid points of consideration. I do wholeheartedly encourage him/her to take some time to integrate this self-shattering lesson and so, gradually and gently become acquainted with it's vast and total incomprehensibility. We all end up finding that we must surrender all of our limited human understanding, to even attempt to grok the expanse of the indefinable Void, itself a vast mirror of all that is existent or nonexistent. But it is a truly wonderful journey if we abandon our need to grasp the ungraspable!!!
There is no self to which I cling, for I am one with everything.