Phlux glad you are ok man.
I want to make a couple of comments that are not directed at anyone in particular.
1) In a real chemistry lab an open flames is never used.. Bunsen burners are a thing of the past...and no chemists don't smoke in the lab these day's.
2) In a real chemistry lab there are several different kinds of fire extinguisher to deal with different kinds of fires.
Why in Gods name would anyone doing an extraction at home use an open flame and not have a fire extinguisher handy? Water baths over open flames are simply not a good option. Don't do it. You might get away with somethign like IPA, but I don't even recommend that. No open flames.
At the last place I worked we had a solvent explosion in the lab (I don't remember all the circumstances). 4 people were hurt, but the girl running the reaction missed 6 months of work because she had millions of tiny slivers of glass spread across her entire front section. She lived because another chemist ran back into the building and pulled her out.
If these kinds of accidents can happen to trained chemists in a well equipped lab then you have to at least allow for the possibility that it could happen in your kitchen...
My advice is to buy a used hot plate or a hot/stir plate if you can afford it from ebay and don't forget the magnetic stir bars.
Also no exceptions here...Get a fire extinguisher from your local hardware store. If you can't afford one then wait to do your extraction until you can afford one. Don't become a statistic because you don't think it can happen to you!
Also If you mess up and burn you house/apartment down instead of your hand not only are you going to loose everything you own, but you most likely going to get a fat jail sentence.
Please people spend a fair amount of time studying general lab safety. This is your life.
Phlux I'm really glad you are all right.
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