Let us just be together.
I just want to be in love!
What else am I here to do?
Am I going to choose suffering? self-hating? loneliness? over joy, peace, love and unbound togetherness?
Friends why do we remain in hell?
Why do we hate ourselves so?
Loving each other feels much better than hating each other. Isn't it?
Yet we spend more time self-hating than self-loving.
How can we expect to love others if we cannot love ourselves?
It is only to be expected, because psyche reflects reality,
our minds and the no-mind are all mirrors to each other.
It is because we hate ourselves so, that these mirrors are covered with dust,
and we therefore cannot see ourselves in each other, and each other in ourselves.
Vibrationally speaking, you tell the cosmos you enjoy the frequency of self-hatred,
because your history is evidently of a person committed to self destruction. Think of habits. Think of delays. Think of addictions. Think of self-hating. Think of worthlessness. Think of powerlessness. If that is the frequency you put out, that is the vibrational reality you get back.
This is when reality provides you all the evidence you can imagine to support your view,
to augment your vibration, because that's the frequency your putting out.
Your attitude is your frequency. And your psyche is an energetic attractor.
People say disidentify, disattach to your thoughts, your body, to the world.
In this way, we discover we are emptiness, and that this emptiness is actually quite fertile.
Everything comes from emptiness. Matter is just dense space.
But since that's what we are anyway and fundamentally, then why all the jazz and whoopee to return?
This attitude has wreaked havoc on our ability to care for and love ourselves in a natural way. Because we are so psychically tight and tangled up about being spiritual, we end up neglecting doing all of the things that we would normally do if we loved ourselves. We get hostile towards the ideas of sex and masturbation. We get hostile towards eating some ice cream every once in a while. We get hostile to the idea of being imperfect. We become spiritual perfectionists, becoming filthy with pride. Just a very high browed version of the same old game of the ego playing one up, you know?
If we return ourselves to an attitude of loving ourselves,
we will then find a reality shift happen.
People start loving us more, without us having to try to get them to do so.
We realize that the reason we depended on them so before was because we were looking for our love in an external source. We demand something from others that is impossible for them to provide because they don't even have it in themselves! How can one give if there is nothing to give? Now that you have turned on the inner fountain of love, loving yourself, you no longer require an external source to provide that for you. Because of this, you don't unconsciously send the message to people that you need something from them, which in turn beautifully enables them up to open up like a flower, because they know they are going to be free of judgement from you. You're not judging yourself, because you're too busy loving yourself. You cannot create art and be a critic of it at the same time. They know you are not going to judge them, because you love them. And that I think is what we are all really looking for. To be loved without judgement. To be loved on no condition. Because this is your attitude in regard to yourself, you will attract a reality into existence full of people being given, by virtue of your own illumination and freedom, permission to love themselves, and in this way everyone loving themselves, others are loved automatically, because it is in the nature of love to include within itself all things on no condition whatsoever.
Let us in this way love ourselves. The world then loves us back.
Or, we can continue to hate ourselves, blaming others, which are projections of our own shame, and the world will hate us back.
Your reality is in your design.