My wife has been wonderfully trying to accept the changes my journey has brought on like making my own shampoo, letting me walk around barefoot, beads , not eating crappy food ect. I need to tell her about my plans on this Dmt trip I plan to take in the near future but want to do it in a way that eases her pre pressed Ronald Reagan mind about psychedelics which was also my the way I felt not too long ago. She worries about everything and I don't hide anything from her, I just don't want this to be a troublesome time between us. Any ideas or advice?

Are you planning on exctracting the molecule or brewing?
Well if you're extracting, and you're going to be telling her about this with her having no prior knowledge of it then you're going to have make it appear like less of a drug and more of a medicine, less of a junkie chemical like meth and more of a natural aid like, idk, aspirin.

Introduce her to the idea of shamanistic ayahuasca use by south americans first, focus on mental and spiritual healing. The problem is bringing her upto speed can't really be done without some element of manipulation especially if she's even remotely resistant, because in order to follow and do what you want with your world and mind you might have to change her world and mind. Whether that's a good or bad thing depends on perspective really because ultimately you're guiding in truth. Question is does she want to follow? Does she even have to? Sometimes there's a balancing act in following our own path and sharing that path with another.

You may want to experience dmt in some way, but do you need to? How important is it?
Talk to Mrs. She doesn't have to partake, you don't have to partake often or many times so I'm sure you can find a balance you're both happy with, work together and grow together.

What does she know about dmt?
good luck

She is a bit on the religious side which makes me nervous about this even though it might help me in the spiritual department . So far she just knows it's produced by a gland under our brains, it's found in lots of plans and animals, it's released when we die , sleep and the judicial system dosent like it. The last part is the kicker. If I would have never mentioned that, I think she would be much more apt to let it slide into her realm of ok. I really want her to be my sitter and not kill my journey with adding worry. I have everything needed to extract.....except her blessing.

religion, especially Christianity, and dmt don't have to be at odds. I don't agree with everything Bill says, maybe I'm wrong about a few things idk. But check this out, try some more of his channel it might be of some use in your journey. Take from him what you will, but I kinda like his work. Bill is a Christian whom meditates and unlocks hidden meanings of the bible.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XF7C4fEsgz8

as far as legalities are concerned, it is my contention that legalities are here to limit mankind. There is distinct difference between lawful and legal. God's laws and man's laws. Lawful is Universal, legal exists only on paper and, frankly, it's BS for the most part.

We're all here to be creative just as god created, that is the nature of a fractal. That which creates, creates the creative and the creative in turn creates. In other words recreation is living RE: creation. I'm not saying go out and break man's laws, take risks etc but be creative. Sad part is man has man living in fear and that sucks. I threw that fear out the window because I'm here to experience this life for myself, my mind and my body are my domain.

If I can source what I need discretely enough, make and use it discretely enough then I'm not worried about legalities or knocks on the door. Nobody knows what I'm doing but me and nobody else to account for.

Extracting dmt is creative, using it is freedom, freedom is recreation. The spiritual aspect is RE:creation.

I'll finish by saying I'm single and have dmt, you're married with no dmt. I think it's better to be happily married for life and never have dmt. If you can have best of both worlds, that's great... but if not you already have the best of the two GL