When you take DMT, (you personally) do you feel a oneness with all, total solitude, both, or something else?

I ask because my husband is hesitant to experiment. He tells me that in his trips he feels complete solitude and has no idea what the oneness with all is about. Don't get me wrong, he is not a shallow or unthinking person, as some may be led to believe by this. Its always made me wonder. Total disconnection with humanity. I cant relate at all. And I wonder if he is maybe going a step above. He has never had DMT. And I wonder where it may take him. Same place as everyone else I would think. He is a strong person so I don't believe it would be horrible. But I worry. Maybe his feeling of solitude was closer to a DMT experience?? I want this experience together. But...I don't know.

Here's a quote from Rilke on the matter.

"I hold this to be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other."


For me personally I feel a whole mixed bag of things, and I can't personally call any of them oneness just because that's not what i think it is. Harmalas definitely bring me to a state of deep solitude.