hola hermano.
i was enticed into this topic by your quote of The Doors' aha love them.
i like the idea of a personal symbolic ceremony for connecting love, instead of state marriage.
i love love. so ill say this.
sounds like a good one could be to go for a long scenic walk in nature to some place you have picked, which she does not know of,"TRUST", and then her to smoke a bong hit of DMT and lay in your lap while she travels, and when she is back you follow her out by smoking a DMT hit.
i get all mushy.
also i like to have a big glass of water before a ceremony.
Peace and plrrrrrrrrrrrrr
"Given enough Time even Hydrogen starts to wonder where it came from, and where it is going"