I appreciate you saying that fidelsbeard!

CatPharm, it sounds like you and your girl are doing a great job at raising your daughter. Hopefully she will come to you guys about any questions she has, whether it pertains to substances or not, it sounds like you have the right approach.

I agree, Nitegazer, some substances just don't mix well with some people and I've also seen cannabis and mushrooms cause peoole harm. I also agree that there comes a point where you have to let go and let the kids choose their own path, make there own decisions and mistakes, but like CatPharm said, it doesn't mean you have to guide less. My mom has always been a big influence in my life, and while she no longer tries to verbally guide me, the way she lives and acts is greater guidance for me than anything she has, or probably ever will tell me.