Hard to say what you've pulled, if it's from your material or residue from your solvent.
To be sure you have no DMT in your solvent you can do a backsalting.
Just dilute some vinegar with water then mix your solvent in, do few pull like that.
Things that can be left in the solvent are water insoluble (maybe tannins or other things you may have pulled before).
Sorry for the approximationThe goal is to convert your freebase into salt (that are water soluble).
Water is OK to wash solvent, only for water soluble compounds (it's not the case for DMT Freebase) adding a bit of acid help converting into salt form.
Solvent washing - why product moves to water layer? You should be better to pull second time with fresh solvent to be sure it was not a residue