Welcome to the Nexus, Myc!
It sounds like you have the right mindset and will likely fit right in around here. I can relate to much of your story as I went through something very similar.
Cacti are also one of my favorite allies. I have a few bridgesii that are currently making it through their second growing season with me. It is exciting!
Anyway, hopefully you enjoy your time here. Have a good one!
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