Hi guys!
I've been hanging around in the chat and was asked to share this guide I made for lucid dreaming. For those who are interested, here's a brief discussion of what it is, how to do it, and why to do it!
I. What is Lucid Dreaming?
Lucid dreams are dreams in which the dreamer is aware that he/she is in a dream. Lucidity in a dream is not an on/off thing. There is a spectrum. You may be fully lucid, you may have a vague idea that you are dreaming. What would often happen to me when I started out is that as soon as I became lucid, the part of my psyche that is involved with sexuality would completely take over my actions in the dream. With practice, you will be able to increase your level of lucidity.
II. How to do it
There are many techniques out there, but I've found that the following steps are the easiest and quickest way of mastering this skill. Note that it will require some dedication and effort for most people to become good at it. Without further ado, here are the steps.
1. Improving dream recall-
To increase your levels of dream-awareness, you have to improve your ability to remember them. We all dream, every night, but if we don't pay enough attention To do this, there are two very effective tools you can use to steadily improve your ability to remember dreams.
- First thing is autosuggestions. Before you go to sleep, as you're laying in bed, make the firm decision in your mind (or out loud if you want) to remember your dreams. Repeat this a few times. It's important to do this with full awareness and intention, as it will lose its power if you do this habitually (the same goes for any of the other steps). You can do this by repeating the words "I will remember my dreams tonight" out loud or in your head.
- The second thing is to actually record your dreams. You may keep a dream-journal next to your bed, or keep some kind of device (like your phone) to record it after you wake up. Write down or record whatever you can remember, even if it's just a feeling you remember having, or if you vaguely remember some aspect of the dream. Whatever it is, write it down or record it.
Try to make it a habit to think of your dreams as soon as you wake up. In the beginning you may be starting out having 0 recall, but over time you will remember more and more. Your dream journal is a great way of interpreting patterns, symbols or other kinds of messages from your dreams. The simple act of paying more attention to your dreams can act as a kind of trigger for lucidity. You may already start to have spontaneous moments of dream-lucidity at this point.
2. Attaining lucidity
Once you have improved your ability to remember your dreams, and you are able to remember a few, you are ready to start working on becoming lucid. There are a few techniques that you can use here.
- The first is, once again, autosuggestions. You can add a phrase to your already existing autosuggestion from the previous step. So instead of just saying "I will remember my dreams tonight," you can add the words "and when I am dreaming, I will know I am dreaming." Keep it simple and avoid using negatives ("no," "not"
in your autosuggestions (the subconscious mind ignores these words, or so I've been told).
- The second technique is using reality checks. When dreaming, you generally don't realise that you are dreaming, even if something bizarre is going on. You want to create the habit of checking what reality-state you are in outside of the dream-state, so that it carries over into the dream state and helps you become lucid.
Throughout the day, whenever you can remember it, ask yourself the question "am I dreaming?" Try to ask yourself this question sincerely, remembering that you never actually know for sure, unless you check! There's a few things you can do to actually check it. Common reality-checks are looking at the time and looking again to see if it changes. Digital clocks may look warped. The same kind of instability also occurs in printed text. My favourite reality-check is the nose-pinch. Close your nose with your fingers and try to breathe in through your nose. If you can't, you're probably not dreaming! Use whatever reality checks you want to use. I like the nose-pinch cause I can do it anywhere, any time, and I tend to have a lot of false-awakenings (where I wake up from a dream in my room, but am actually still dreaming) so it doesn't cost much effort when you're still half asleep, too comfy to move.
- A third technique that is extremely effective is the WILD (Wake-induced Lucid Dream) technique. This involves waking up after 4-6 hours of sleep, staying awake for 15-30 mins (or up to an hour) and going back to sleep with the intention of having a lucid dream. This causes a REM-sleep rebound effect that allows you to go straight into REM-sleep, thus making it easier to acquire and maintain lucidity. You might have experienced this REM-sleep rebound effect before, waking up and going straight back into a dream. During the time spent awake, avoid bright lights or screens. Light a candle, meditate, set intentions... get your mind awake and aware, but not distracted. I do this alot because I usually automatically wake up after 4-6 hours, but if you have trouble waking up for this, I suggest you do it once or twice a week or so. Don't lose any sleep for this!
- Another technique involves using herbs. Calea zacatechichi, silene capensis and mugwort are known oneirogens (dream-enhancers). I have heard of people using melatonin,especially in conjunction with the WILD technique as well. A friend of mine even told me that smoking a very small amount of bufo before going to sleep works too. I like mugwort especially, cause it grows absolutely abundantly here in Holland (and all over the Northern Hemisphere afaik)! Don't overuse mugwort though, no more than a week straight to avoid possible toxicity (not sure if the toxicity thing is legit though).
3. Deepening lucidity
Once you have attained lucidity, it probably won't be that easy to maintain it, most of the time. You may become overexcited and wake up, which used to happen to me alot. The key here is to keep at it! In time you will become more used to the state. Once you are lucid, the best thing to do when you are starting out is to deepen your awareness of the dream body.
- Rubbing your (dream) hands together, looking at your dream body, feeling it, meditating on it. These are all ways of increasing your awareness. The more aware you are of your dream-body, the more control you will have over it. In due time you will learn to fly, move through walls, etc. Sometimes you may be more easily able to move around in the dream world (especially if you attain lucidity deep inside a dream), but practicing this will help alot. Another thing that happens to alot of people is a kind of "astral blindness". Vision may become blurry, or disappear. I've found that I can kind of force my dream-eyelids open with my hands, but it's far better just to be patient and try to bring more awareness and focus to your vision. Just wait, patiently, and it will probably come back.
III. Why Practice Lucid Dreaming?
We spend about 1/3 of our time in this life asleep. Wouldn't it be awesome if we could use that time constructively? Lucid dreaming is great for deepening creativity, practicing a skill (this has PROVEN benefits for athletes, for example!), having tons of fun flying and fighting dragons and stuff (aww yeahhh), having sex, etc.
However, note that lucidity does not necessarily imply full control. You may have full control over your interactions with the dream-world, but there is some other aspect of your psyche, outside of your conscious mind, that is generating this dream-environment! You are literally interacting with your mind. If psyche-delic means mind-manifest, then this is no different. Rather than interacting with the entity of a mushroom or a plant though, you are fully immersed in nothing but your own mind. Call it your subconscious mind, your Higher Self, or whatever it may be.
I personally find that lucid dreaming is a profound tool for delving deep into personal issues and problem solving. I did a small qualitative study during my bachelor (which was in psychology) and gave my participants these same instructions. We would have regular sessions where we met up and shared our experiences. One of my participants had just gotten off antipsychotic medication and told me that he no longer needed it, having learned how to confront his demons in the dream-state.
Our dreams are there to teach, and lucid dreaming is the perfect opportunity to listen. Our dreams are the naturally induced psychedelic state that we enter into every night. Know that your dreams are there to help you, and you have the right to ask your dreams what they are trying to tell you (even though you might not always get a reply). Tibetan Buddhists use the lucid dream state as a means of receiving knowledge from beyond themselves, and as a gateway to states of Pure Light, infinite bliss, pure consciousness. The possibilities are endless!
I hope you find this useful. If you have any questions, need help or guidance with this practice. Please feel free to ask
Much love.
Jallen