Listen to Anne, listen to the elves.
Quote:I've begun learning to cook Indian as well as it is typically forgivingly delicious in the realm of vegetarian and veganism.
This is GOOD!
The true demand that vegetarianism makes of you is learning how to cook. With meat, it's easy: a good steak, 3 mins each side, voila! Now try that with a turnip...Hint: the oven is your friend, roast veggies well, then combine with whichever sauce you just made on the hob. There is never any excuse to eat/serve a watery pasta friggin bake, because nothing will get you dreaming of meatballs again, faster...
The "deliciousness" will come back, with practice, I promise you.
Now here's the thing: the vegan/carnivore dichotomy is yet another arbitrary, unhelpful distinction to make you feel crap about yourself. As someone who has travelled this road a few times, and has now settled at the vegetarian end, I invite you to consider someone who:
1. Eats whatever appeals, usually mass-produced, and meat-based.
2. Eats whatever appeals, but prefers dishes where meat is used as a flavouring. Ham on pizza, for example.
3. Eats whatever appeals, but tries to avoid meat, unless raised locally/non-industrially.
4. Eats whatever appeals, but mostly vegetarian now.
5. Eats whatever appeals, but tries to avoid dairy.
6. Eats whatever appeals, but avoids dairy, unless raised locally/non-industrially.
7. Eats whatever appeals, but not dairy of any kind, and has become a vegan.
Now, I am not a vegan anymore, and do not know if I would become one again, so please do not assume I am implying that veganism is the goal. It is not, unless you reach that conclusion yourself, independently.
What I am trying to show, is how diet can exist on a continuum. Each step on the ladder is preferable (for a host of reasons, not just about you) to the one before it. If you can, and want to, see how far you can progress... You can go stepwise, and it will still be a big improvement all round. Your cooking skills will improve too. And, if you slip back one (drunken) night or whatever, just remember it's no biggy, people slip up all the time. Just resume when you are ready.
Gradual steps are easier, and more sustainable in the long-term, than "faddism". "Hey everyone, I'm a vegan from today!" are the least convincing words, ever. IME, a lot of people find themselves basically trapped at 1. because the only diet-based dialogue they ever encounter is the hate-filled ranting of the people at 7. But I contend that all the steps are valid, each is an improvement, and each can be made by anyone, easily.
I have a feeling the elves would be happy with this compromise too...they're all about the long-term results.
“I sometimes marvel at how far I’ve come - blissful, even, in the knowledge that I am slowly becoming a well-evolved human being - only to have the illusion shattered by an episode of bad behaviour that contradicts the new and reinforces the old. At these junctures of self-reflection, I ask the question: “are all my years of hard work unraveling before my eyes, or am I just having an episode?” For the sake of personal growth and the pursuit of equanimity, I choose the latter and accept that, on this journey of evolution, I may not encounter just one bad day, but a group of many.”
― B.G. Bowers
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