Add the naptha, shake shake shake shake shake. With that much lye you will NOT form any emullsion, and if you do it wont last long. The idea is to get the spice in the lye water to interact directly with the naptha to move it into the non-polar solvent. Heating the naptha never seemed to help nearly as much as more end over end turning or shaking, letting it sit for 5 mins, repeat.
Do this for a day and stop pulling. Swim says that you do not seem to be patient and you will notice better results the longer you let the naptha sit in the solution.
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