Hi, I'm pretty much in the same situation as you are.
I decided to follow the advices of many and to take it step by step, I've made a thread where I want to write about my experience
so far I only tried once, a very very small dose with very little effects (body high, very minor alterations, no visuals)
you can read about it
thereultimately, it's up to you, I also considered to go for a breakthrough dose at first try, but I figured I'd probably mess up the set & setting and other stuff and the chances of a bad experiences would be higher.
so I'm taking it slow, there's no hurry, it will happen eventually
it's up to you, first do your extract, read as much as you can, and make your choice.