Thanks so much guys, pretty sure it was the wrong tree, she looked right and she called to me, but perhaps it was for something else!
sigh! There's another big lady nearby that looks good and has totally different bark so I might try that and see what I can do about trying a more complex tek. I'm just such a chemistry pleb at this stage!!
Thanks so much for your help, I really appreciate it!
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