Hello Lux,
I hope you don't mind me helping facilitate better understanding of some of the questions here.
3rdI wrote:welcome to the Nexus Lux,
im still curious as to what this is....
Lux wrote:I've been down the rabbit hole and I've found the other door.
did the door have a knocker or a bell?
The initials INFJ refers to the Meyers Briggs personality type and profiling. I believe it is a common profiling tool used by the FBI and many other organizations and businesses. It was originally developed by Isabel Briggs Myers from the work of Karl Jung.
The first letter refers how someone gets energy or focuses attention. The "I" indicates that Lux gets thier energy and can focus better by going inward. Being introverted rather than extroverted. I am also a introvert in this way. I need to be quiet and contemplate things with out external reflection. My girlfriend is just the opposite,
The "N" refers to how Lux may need to use intuition to perceive or take in information. The other side of this would be referring to using the five senses as determining the concrete verifiable data from the five senses. I also am intuitive in this regard.
The "F" refers to feeling. The need to feel a decision is correct that to think a decision is correct. For me, my decisions must feel right rather than make sense from thinking.
The last letter refers to how some one orients themselves to the world around them. "J" indicates judgement over perception.
Copied from Wikipedia:
I – Introversion preferred to extroversion: INFJs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extroverts gain energy).[8]
N – Intuition preferred to sensing: INFJs tend to be more abstract than concrete. They focus on the big picture rather than the details, and on future possibilities rather than immediate realities.[9]
F – Feeling preferred to thinking: INFJs tend to value personal considerations above objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to social implications than to logic.[10]
J – Judgment preferred to perception: INFJs tend to plan their activities and make decisions early. They derive a sense of control through predictability. [11]
Characteristics of INFJs
INFJs are conscientious and value-driven. They seek meaning in relationships, ideas, and events, with an eye toward better understanding of themselves and others. Using their intuitive skills, they develop a clear and confident vision, which they then set out to execute, aiming to better the lives of others. Like their INTJ counterparts, INFJs regard problems as opportunities to design and implement creative solutions.[12]
INFJs have been mistaken for extroverts, as they can adapt easily in social situations due to their complex understanding of an individual's motivations; however, they are true introverts. INFJs are private individuals who prefer to exercise their influence behind the scenes. Though they are very independent, INFJs are intensely interested in the well-being of others. INFJs prefer one-on-one relationships to large groups. Sensitive and complex, they are adept at understanding complicated issues and driven to resolve differences in a cooperative and creative manner.[3]
INFJs have a rich, vivid inner life that they may be reluctant to share with those around them. Nevertheless, they are congenial in their interactions and perceptive of the emotions of others. Generally well liked by their peers, they may often be considered close friends and confidants by most other types; however, they are guarded in expressing their own feelings, especially to new people, and tend to establish close relationships slowly. INFJs tend to be easily hurt, though they may not reveal it (except to their closest companions). INFJs may "silently withdraw as a way of setting limits" rather than expressing their wounded feelings—a behavior that may leave others confused and upset.[13]
INFJs tend to be sensitive, quiet leaders with a great depth of personality. They are intricately, deeply woven, mysterious, highly complex, and often puzzling, even to themselves. They have an orderly view toward the world but are internally arranged in a complex way that only they can understand. Abstract in communicating, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. With a natural affinity for art, INFJs tend to be creative and easily inspired, yet they may also do well in the sciences, aided by their intuition.[14]
I hope this is more helpful. Lux please be sensitive as to how you personality trait is of the most rare being within 1-2% of the population. There are many other personalities here that are definitely not perceiving your intro the best way. You will isolate yourself in unnecessary ways that I suspect could be a pattern for you life, something you don't always intend on doing.
Best of luck