Try going through various harmala alkaloid strengths, increasing your dose to a psychedelic level so you can get comfortable with their nature. Once you have integrated that, it should be easier to work with the DMT.
Also keep in mind that unless you want to trip really hard on both Harmalas and DMT, the dose for full MAO inhibition is not really more than 3 grams for most people. So you will no longer be potentiating the DMT aspect of the experience once you go over that amount.
Friends of mine have had a great time with Rue, I think many people underestimate its healing power on its own. A trip using 7,5 g (2,5 tsp) was decribed by a good friend as a 90 degree turn of reality, everything was shimmering, he was moving through infinite headspaces, his body was giving him pointers on physical healing, it was amazing, he says.
Know your dose, don't overdo it and don't panic if you do!
Turn off your mind, relax and float downstream... It is not dying.P.S. Increasing the dose of the DMT-containg plant only seems to work to some extent. If you don't use a lot for your brew, it's less likely you'll have a breakthrough trip (that is, closed eye visions, like freebase spice). Again, having too much can be hell.
In my country, the legal go-to psychoactive substance is ethanol. Sometimes my friends get wasted and tell the craziest stories about how they go out at night to harvest strange grasses in the light of the full moon. They claim to meet elves, white light and jaguars. These are their stories.
SMAOLK ZEBONG
Mon Ami, if you lose your inhibition we can take some extasy and DANCE!