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becomethepath
#1 Posted : 8/16/2013 11:01:23 AM
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What is your opinion on the specific subjects I listed below? After taking dmt, what is your view on these topics?

Alcohol
Casual sex
Night clubs and bars, Parties
Solitude
Social circle
Loneliness
Having a lot of friends
Being Born Ugly or Beautiful


 

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hug46
#2 Posted : 8/16/2013 11:08:06 AM

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Alcohol = good in moderation
Casual sex = good in moderation
Night clubs and bars, Parties = good in moderation
Solitude = good in moderation
Social circle = good in moderation
Loneliness = good in moderation
Having a lot of friends = good in moderation



 
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#3 Posted : 8/16/2013 11:44:25 AM

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becomethepath wrote:
What is your opinion on the specific subjects I listed below? After taking dmt, what is your view on these topics?

Alcohol
Casual sex
Night clubs and bars, Parties
Solitude
Social circle
Loneliness
Having a lot of friends
Being Born Ugly or Beautiful




Alcohol - I don't drink any. Seems more of a damaging substance than something that leads to constructive and positive effects IMO (though I know there are exceptions and as long as the person doesn't bother me or others, I dont mind if someone else drinks)

Casual sex - If both people consent to it and use condoms, why not? Can be great fun! Though I definitely preffer sex with love

Night clubs and bars - I don't frequent them usually. It's like the level of interaction is often very crude, too many drunken annoying people, music is often not good. Again, there are exceptions, and I'd go to some place if a specific dj/producer I like is playing, but I just generally avoid it.

Solitude/loneliness - I think it's natural to have a certain separation once you realize that not all social interaction is beneficial, but I think it's also possible to become too isolated and this is neither good. Gotta find a balance.

Social circle / Having lots of friends - I get along well with people of all kinds and know many people, but I generally choose who I hang out with well. Better quality than quantity.

Being born ugly/beautiful - On one hand it's a subjective thing (in one culture or time, the concept of beauty might be different than another).. Also I think often confidence and self-image matter nearly more than outer beauty. I often see people on the streets that are pretty, but probably have a low self-esteem and dont take care of themselves and then they become uglier. Or the inverse. I've seen people who would be considered very 'ugly' with a boyfriend/girlfriend and perfectly happy. That being said, I'm not sure about the extremes, it must not be easy having a very strong "ugly" characteristic like some genetic defect or whatever. I guess the best these people can do is try to have a good inner attitude and take it as a challenge and opportunity for inner growth
 
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#4 Posted : 8/16/2013 11:52:05 AM

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Alcohol - Jep

Casual sex - Is ok but not the best

Night clubs and bars, Parties - Jep

Solitude - Like and need it sometimes

Social circle - Will become a kind of work if one misses to limit it

Loneliness - Where's the difference to solitude? Sorry, non native english speaker.

Having a lot of friends - "Friends" is not a well defined term imho. I'm pretty sure that the following goes for nearly everyone: You can count the number of your real friends on one hand. One really has to distinguish between friends an acquaintances.

Being Born Ugly or Beautiful - _Can_ make your life more/less challenging.


But I must say that DMT didn't change my view on even one of those topics. It did just the opposite...strentghen my beliefes
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#5 Posted : 8/16/2013 12:58:51 PM

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You added the ugly/beautiful thing after i answered (unless i didn"t read the post right). And that is not something that can be answered with the stock moderation response. As said before, beauty is a completely subjective thing. Some people like skinny, some like fat. Some hairy, some like bald. I have to agree with Endlessness in that if you can carry yourself with confidence it can have a positive effect on how you are seen by the outside world.
Can you have casual sex with someone who is considered physically beautiful by society"s standards but perhaps they have a heart that is ugly by your standards. I suppose it depends on how you view casual sex. If you just want a brutal fuck maybe it"s ok but you still have to talk before in order to get to the resultant sex. And good sex is communication in itself.
 
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#6 Posted : 8/16/2013 1:17:13 PM

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Alcohol - Poison
Casual sex - Sport sex!
Night clubs and bars, Parties - meh, unless its got live music, preferably edm
Solitude - Introverted so thats how i recharge
Social circle - Only real people allowed.
Loneliness - very rare
Having a lot of friends - osssss
Being Born Ugly or Beautiful - as a vgl i can say it has gotten me in & out of a lot of trouble. We are more than our skin, hair & eyes yet most don't get past it.
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#7 Posted : 8/16/2013 1:53:14 PM

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Alcohol: In moderation I find it can be great for loosening mental inhibitions and judgements and enhancing creative writing and music making. In larger amounts it is hit or miss... can be a wild adventure or a complete disaster filled with remorse the next day.

Casual sex: As above, in moderation it can be fun, in excess it can either be mind blowing or filled with remorse the next day Embarrased

Night clubs and bars, Parties: Unless I'm going to see a particular band or event... not my scene manNeutral

Solitude: is bliss.

Social circle: Quality over quantity, preferably one on one or a small crew.

Loneliness: is such a drag (as Hendrix was want to say). Solitude and loneliness are not the same to me IMO. I can be in a completely crowded room and feel utterly lonely due to lack of connection but be on top of a mountain by myself with no other human for miles and feel complete connection. Take that as you will Smile

Having a lot of friends: Again, quality over quantity.

Being Born Ugly or Beautiful: I've found as I have grown older that beauty or ugliness comes from inside. Some of the most beautiful people I have met have not been the most eye pleasing on the outside but an inner light and personality makes them infinitely beautiful. And inversely, some outwardly beautiful people have shown a pretty ugly inner self emerge pretty quickly. And sometimes outward beauty equals inside beauty and outside ugliness begats inside ugliness also, all the colours of the rainbow!



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#8 Posted : 8/16/2013 2:35:29 PM

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Alcohol= moderation is key, I like to drink on occasion but usually limit myself to a few beers or couple glasses of wine.

Casual sex= Can be fun, lately starting to not be as fun. Love over lust.

Night clubs and bars, Parties= depends on whose there, what music is be played etc.

Solitude= necessary to having a healthy mind. Need to get away once in a while to clear the mind.

Social circle= the more the merrier, but quality of friends is the most important.

Loneliness= something dmt users feel when they insert themselves in the "real world". Depends on how good of friends and family you have. Loneliness also depends on you ability to accept love, you can have the most loving people around you and still feel lonely if you are going through difficult times. Being lonely is no fun, where solitude is peace.

Having a lot of friends= Overrated more important factor is qaulity, still can be friendly with a lot of people though.

Being Born Ugly or Beautiful= There is definitely an inner component to beauty, confidence is a key factor. Also health effects beauty a lot in my opinion, just general fitness and hygiene, anyone who respects there body really I find to be beautiful. Ugliness I equate with ignorance, and stupidity. Intelligence is sexy- I think Terence Mckenna said that.

 
 
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