If you get enough DMT to your brain, there is no two ways about it. You will feel it.. and if you were "fighting it" or "resisting" in some way, trust me ... you would feel that too because it would be one hell of a fight. If you vape a full 35-50mg correctly, that's it. You're gone. You don't need to breathe right, or encite it in any way. Although these things will help you with your travels when you become more advanced, it is ceretainly not necessary to 'feel the effects' of DMT.
My theory is that somehow, some way, you simply did not get enough spice into the lungs.
Keep in mind that you are in new territory, and DMT is not like pot, or anything else for that matter. When I first started I wasted a lot of spice, as many of us do. It's easy to get confused about how big of a hit you're really taking due to the new taste and unfamiliar vaporization harshness. Depending on the method, because of the heat involved in vaporization, it can feel like a very big hit when you're really just sucking in heat itself.
It takes some time to get used to working with the spice. Keep trying, you'll get it.
Last bit of advice.. DMT is more powerful than any human being who hasn't experienced it can possibly imagine. The first time I smoked DMT, I assumed I was breaking through after a couple of hits because it was the most powerful thing I had ever experienced in life, and then I was completely normal three minutes later.
You have to really go for it if you want a breakthrough. Just keep hitting it until you aren't in that room anymore.
After two or three solid hits, you may feel like this is the most intense thing you've ever experienced. The world is covered in digital fractaly grid-ness, your body is whooshing like crazy and it feels like you are dying and you want to just give in and close your eyes ... DON'T. IME, giving in at this stage is a ticket to a very wierd three minute trip. I call this being "stuck in the tube". You will most likely need a trip sitter to help you, but this moment (when the world is disintegrating) is when you need to man up, take one last serious hit, and break on through.

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