I think I see what you are saying Caliwa, let me try and give you my take on this. Love is energy, as is the light that hyperspace is constituted from, it is what binds everything. Humans, and this realm are constituted of matter as well as light - and this is where the imperfections creep in. We cannot conjure up impossibly entertaining light toys, or fill each other with pure ecstasy just by changing form and infusing every atom with the deepest meaning, that is beyond our power.
BUT what we do have, that is tangible and real, are our relationships and bonds to those around us, we are constituted of matter, chemicals - at its basest love is a chemical reaction, when you meet some one you are attracted to you, and they feel the same, you have
chemistry. The divine goes so far beyond chemistry because these are realms of light, ever changing, ever mutating with the greatest of ease - there is no need for chemical reactions in a sea of consciousness. And yet this sea of consciousness is love beyond what our mere mortal minds can fathom, because its purpose is not as base as finding a reproductive partner, survival, fitting into a group, feeling responsibility. Once mortality is removed from the equation, love can exist in its purest form.
How ever, love even in our lives evolves, mutates, dies, and is re-born, in many ways it is a touch of the cosmic unity that we experience at much greater levels out there - here on earth, and we are lucky enough to be able to share that.
Hope that made sense

Much LOVE
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