I definitely wouldn't try and convince someone who was suicidal to try DMT but if they wanted to try it of their own accord and with a healthy intention, I'd not try and and dissuade them -- I would give them as much emotional support as I could. I believe that the best form of healing comes from within, which is why it is important to let people do things because they want to -- for their own reasons.
I eschew the notion that there is ever a last resort with suicide. When it seems like this is the last chance, that's a good time to start talking. It's not like they're destined to off themselves at exactly 6pm unless DMT is administered post haste.
//somewhat related anecdote with themes of drugs and suicide
Last year, I ran into a friend at a festival. He was tripping with this girl. They had both eaten a bunch of xtacy and were trying to get all the passer-bys to hug them. I got to talking with them for a while. The girl kept laughing in a totally demented way. She had recently gotten out of prison and was now living with her abusive family. She kept talking about how she was going to kill herself. How she hated the thought of coming down off the drugs because when she did, she would no longer feel anything. I asked her if she wouldn't feel awful tomorrow from the hangover and she said that she probably would. "See, you'll still feel something," I replied. This caused a big smile on her face. She seemed to relax a bit.
I haven't seen either of them since then. My friend was supposed to help her get into a youth shelter so that she could escape her situation at home. I hope she didn't off herself, she was really pretty and strong -- like coiled steel. Hardly anyone ever comes close to matching me in physical strength but this girl could nearly over power me. She said it's because she had to be tough in prison.
I know I'm not qualified to give medical advice and have done my best to only share my thoughts and experiences on the matter.
It's an interesting discussion. I hope it is helpful to everyone.
These aren't the droids you're looking for.