So ... I have been asked by a very beautiful lady I have recently been falling for, to escort her on a journey.

She has done spice once before, and had a bad experience - apparently she stood up and freaked out as she watched her friend's face melting. I told her, she should keep her eyes closed... anyway, I am honored that she trusts me to give her the sacrament.

The thing is... I really really have the hots for this girl, been trying to keep it cool, as I get the feeling she sees me more as a friend... although from some things she has said I feel there is maybe more going on. In any case I am more than happy to show her the way - I very much enjoy introducing the spice to friends.

I just want to be careful not to affect her experience by my desires or expectations. I guess, I am posting this here to share both my excitement and my concern (although I know it will be good anyway).

awesome! good luck with being her sitter as well as getting together with her eventually..... just dont try to kiss her while she's in hyperspace hahahah

I swear I was about to type the same thing


seriously though, the fact that this special lady trusts you to hold her hand through such a profound and deeply personal act speaks volumes.

to have a basis of trust such as this is one of the very core fundamentals for any relationship.

Im excited for you, but yes keep your cool and, things seem to be progressing in the right direction so enjoy this special bond you both seem to be nurturing and developing together

from my experience, allot of how you should proceed depends on your age and her age. actually, your relevent experience level. No matter what, if the relationship you desire is pending, friendship will be the precursor and foundation of whatever is to come. Congratulations.

haha balaganist is in love
wish you al the best..

do you know why she wants to do dmt? what does she expect?
intention? motivation?

Start off with a cup of caapi tea, preparing, relaxing.

There is nothing like the union of two souls in hyperspace.

My love and I actually experienced a marriage, there.

I'll never ever forget the way she REALLY looked when I came back (she actually folded up and disappeared....)

My advice....go in at the same time.

You'll see....


Something fucking incredible happens when you mirror the love.

ha, thanks for the support and humour guys



She has said to me on a few occasions - she is ready to explore other worlds. She has also done Ayahuasca once, which seemed to have had a profound affect on her. She seems to be beginning (or developing) a journey of self-healing and self-realisation. She has a very strong and focused character. I find her pretty amazing to tell the truth

Thanks - I was actually thinking of preparing some light Caapi tea for the occasion.
I read your post about the beautiful experience you had in hyperspace together, sounded amazing.

Namaste!

Aww...bless your heart dude. Mystical experiences with those who you feel close to are the best Let us know how it goes?

Much love

Hi, make sure she does some breathing excercises, make sure she realizes she's safe, make sure she's relaxed, ask her if she wants you to hold her hand, do not view her as the girl you love at this moment, view her as the girl you are tending to, the person you are taking care of, out of love of life, rather than that butterly love you may be feeling.

Make sure she is calm, it wouldn't be fair if she had another unfortunate experience simply because you assumed she was up for it!