To me its like peeling back layers of an onion.
After an experience, reflection is key.
I had several experiences when i was young.
it took me years of looking back on it, reflecting on what it meant,
before anything else could have had anything positive to give me.
I did not know this at the time, but, only years later did it make sense to me.
I had to admit things about myself, to myself, accept it, and change.
To me, having a clear goal is the first step. That step has to be clearly defined.
Just an idea...
good luck!
All things are subject to interpretation whichever interpretation prevails at a given time
is a function of power and not truth.
- Friedrich Nietzsche
To know that we know what we know, and to know that we do not know what we do not know, that is true knowledge.
- Nickolaus Copernicus