Hmmm. I'd love to answer your questions! I'm not sure I understand them right. Because I haven't so clearly thought about what nonduality means for me. I've hear mostly Advaita teachers talk about that, and I have not really a connection to Advaita. For them, this seems to be a big issue.
Urban Dictionary says the following:
Quote:Nonduality
Not two. Non-separateness. The nature of reality.
The experience, sense, intuition, or knowing of a reality that is deeper, more meaningful, more unified, more vast than the reality that is known on a day to day basis, and from which there is no separation.
The recognition that while non-separateness describes reality, distinct and apparently separate forms arise within it. The further recognition that form and reality are not separate even though they may appear to be, even as waves are not separate from the ocean.
The body of practices, teachings, teachers, traditions that may be accessed in the pursuit of understanding reality.
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https://www.urbandiction...fine.php?term=NondualitySooo... is that what you mean when you talk about nonduality? Or is it something else?
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EDIT: Another thought on the matter. I assume that we'll agree nonduality means something that is different from "everyday mind" - whatever that may be. I can't really say much about what Advaita does with the term, but I believe this to be a fundemental issue.
I have the impression that there are several ways that can seriously weaken our normal, everyday mind. Psychedelics, meditation, sexual ecstasy, sports, you name it. A Zen teacher said to me that what Zen meditation does is that it allows us to stretch the network of thoughts that our mind makes, and that can be opaque, so that we can see through and the before-thinking mind can seep through, bringing healing and inspiring energy. (I quote very loosely from memory).
So, I don't know if this is close to what you mean by the term. That's what I think about - the "before thinking" mind, a more basic, general, encompassing awareness. I believe that to be a fundemental human experience, most people just don't notice or forget it quickly. Psychedelics, especially on higher doses, can bring intense experiences of that, but there are many other ways.
Rising above conditioned existence? Hmm.. to me, the conditioned, relative world is just one dimension of existence, nonduality being another. For me, we live in both, and can train ourselves to perceive different layers. But perceiving the nondual for me dosen't really influence the dualistic, even though connections can be made.
But I'd say, we can get acquainted with that part of ourself that doesen't reside in the conditioned world - but this part never did that, regardless of if we perceived that or not. So, journeying to the nondual means rather exploring what had already been there, but not really a "rising above".
Don't know if that makes sense to you...