White spirit (heavy naphtha) clings onto DMT more strongly than light naphtha.
I would not rule it out as a non-polar solvent, I have had good results with it in the past. I think your post title is slightly alarmist.
I have worked with white spirit, going completely the opposite route than is normally advised. Due to its low cost I tried adding excessive amounts in my pulls, after freezing it dropped out as easily as light naptha. Considering the talk about it not being a good solvent to work with, I was nicely surprised.
If you have issues dropping spice out of your solvent, another route to go is salting out the DMT with vinegar, rebasing and pulling using a less greedy solvent.