You know I love kids, I work with kids and I kinda would like to have lots of kids but there are strong stats that say that not having kids may be much better for the world.

I do definately like my genes for passing on, me and my brothers were effortlessly *A* students in school as well as excellent athletes without needing to exercise so it is very tempting to have many kids to spread my genes.

Recently in a casual discussion but I stumbled upon an idea I hope my future girlfriend/wife would be in on:
1 child from my own seed then 1 or 2 adopted kids from Africa or China or somewhere. (was that mentioned before, didn't read all 4 pages)

That is what I would like to do for sure!

pls don't get me wrong , i really like kids but i am afraid of them

they are so sweet and everytime i see them i think wow it would be nice to have kids and then i say to myself why not also get a gun and shoot myself in the head while i am at it :idea:

i mean i like kids but still no way i can take up such a huge responsibility ? infact i am not gonna procreate ever , no marriage too since responsibility is not my cup of tea

also i like sleeping alone and i've noticed whenever i am in a relationship i have to share my bed with her , i cannot really tolerate being around human beings much more than 8 hours everyday , somedays i don't wanna see anybody ,

solitude really makes me happy as i can then talk to myself , when i am alone there are these wonderful revelations and sometimes funny jokes that keep popping into my head and i feel really good , furthermore being alone also gives me time to collect and understand more knowledge and do much more work then i am able to do around human beings as they keep asking for attention

thus no kids - no procreation - no relationships - and possibly no sex as soon i am able to surpass the need for it , hopefully in 20 years

I wish that everyonewith kids wasas food ofa parent as you,

Kids are not for everyone,, but some people are clearly meantto have kide.

Thanks for raising a good family...the future thanks you even more!