[quote=bufoman]The wave nature of a particle is a strange concept however. For example the wave function of an electron is a probability matrix. It exists in this state until it is observed once it is observed it collapses into a particle. This is an actual form of matter and this is what the QM experiments show. Reality does exist in this form. Thus interactions are not sufficient to collapse the wave function. These interactions require an observer. Maybe the word observer is misleading. As it implies an observation... and thus a consciousness... however this has not been proven...
It seems that matter takes the form of different states dependent on what it is that is being measured. Maybe there is only a single entity however like a fractal different sides come out during different observations.... Maybe some form of quantum observer Relativity Thus does the state really change or are we really just looking at one aspect or side of a single thing. The problem is this thing does appear to behave differently in different times and these states are not able to be unified they oppose one another. End quote
Hmm, you describe pretty much what i meant. I added the word equilibrium to mean a form of balance. Balance between the observer and the observed.
John nash (the schizofrenic,paranoïd mathematician from 'a beautifull mind'

was the first to discover that every 'game' (chess, chicken, hide and seek, the cold war, world war 2, etc.) knows a situation where the move of one party is the most optimal move in relation to the move of the other party, and vice versa, wich makes it an equilibrium; the so called 'nash-equilibrium'. (meaning that A makes the best possible move according to his situation determined by the move of B, and in hindsight of the move of A, B doesn't have to change his move, they are for each the most optimal move in relation to eachother so they don't have to constantly change their strategy after each step of the other party)
I meant that it seems that something similar is going on between the observer and the observed in that they both seem to alter their position in relation to eachother, as if the situation considering the state of both is a stable optimum (or maybe more an optimal minimum, an optimal state of rest) given their connectedness and thus how they would tend to affect eachoter.