i finally have the opportunity to experience DMT, but the one person who would want to do it with me wants to do it to "get f*cked up", i want to do it for the spirituality. should i wait to find a different person to experience it with or should i be alone when i experience DMT?

Set & setting, set & setting, set & setting,...

short answer, yes you should wait.
or consider flying solo..

As long as he's a close friend I wouldnt hold back from doing it with him. Good possibility his motives will quickly change after the experience.

All depends on your comfort level with it. Getting 'fucked up' may be the closest way he can comprehend a spiritual experience. Work with each other. Relax.

maybe you have seen it! the DMT party people? same as the salvia party people!
you can find them on you-tube all of the time! the people who get some guy to take a hit, then when he is high, they mess with him, bug the shit out of him for kicks. then sometimes you hear or read they saw devils and monsters. real nice group to chill and.... have your spiritual hell...

better alone or with likeminded people like yourself!

Those videos drive me mad. It's that kind of thing that got Salvia scheduled where I live.

Xaarov - They are just stupid videos. People are so dumb. They have no thought other than. "do it now". Whatever it is. They just jump in to things without any thought about anyone only themselves or the people who want to impress. Just stupid humans doing stupid things and You-Tube is hosting that crap. We should flag all of them. They are just giving the wrong message.

Hi.

DMT, from my personal experience, is not really a proper substance


Seriously.

I am really affraid that people with such attitude (i.e. abusing entheogens / psychedelic drugs / sacraments just to have fun, without respecting their real power) can get one into some serious trouble... Look at youtube at those kids´ faces , who underestimated/disrespected the power of Salvia for example... I feel sorry for them, but it gets me really worried at the same time: one can seriously "f*ck up" with these powerful, respect deserving, substances, if not treating them with the respect they deseve...

(just my personal opinion)

I've always preferred being alone while vaping. I would go with Parshvik's advice. Your friend needs to check himself before he wrecks himself.

That same situation happened with DMT on my first encounter. As soon as I got it, a friend wanted me to share and to do it so "his head could turn into a car and have the craziest trip ever". I firmly told him and everyone in the conversation that I do not want to do it for that reason and am going to do it on my own. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who want to use it just to get fucked up but they don't understand the power of it.