A few months back me and my girlfriend got out of this relationship with this other girl that we had been living with for about 2 months. We had been excited to share each other with this other girl, but nothing ever happened between the 3 of us.. even though it had been building up to that. She led us both on and toyed with our hearts.. Which led us to kicking her out.

Now we are on the lookout for a new 3rd but have been finding it rather difficult. It seems that an interesting bi female is quite hard to find.. But alas..

I was curious to know if anyone on here had any experience with being in multiple partner relationships and what everyone's opinions are on the subject.

I haven't explored this area as much as I want yet because I still have too much work to do on myself before I can commit to more than one relationship.

I definitely feel like the world of polyamory is opening up and has a lot of potential for breaking down peoples limiting beliefs on sex.

I'm sorry to hear about the chick who toyed with you guys.

There are a couple of poly sites called http://www.polymatchmaker.com and http://www.polymatcher.com

There are quite a few poly women on http://www.okcupid.com as well.

I have used okc and I highly recommend it.

It can be fun just don't get your expectations too high.

I'm sure that there are some spirituality based dating sites for heart centered relationships as well.

Hmm.. I think I may check out okc.

The only problem with meeting people online is that it is hard to truly get to know someone.